One of the most enthralling things I was ever exposed to in the training world was Neurolinguistics Programming. A whole team of us went through the legitimate 3-day class and I think I was the only one who embraced the concept. I wanted that class delivered to all of the managers at our workplace. I talked them into a sample but they were decidedly not interested.
For example, if I said, "Unit and I can't do much of anything anymore." The word, "Can't." Internally, mentally, you can hear the gates slam shut. Just use different words. Like, "We are currently overcoming some physical challenges." That's better, isn't it? It is, better for everybody involved.
I wasn't about to give up on 150 mph in Arkansas, by golly that's the goal. With a new rear gear and a tailwind Red was able to do it. Never say, "Can't."
Aside from that, listen to what people say, in conversation. NLP is more applicable to people you have just now met, not old friends. Make eye contact and listen. People will involuntarily tell you what's important to them. They will. It's a science, not a religion, and it's real. So many aspects to it. Just observe. It takes some practice.
For example, if I said, "Unit and I can't do much of anything anymore." The word, "Can't." Internally, mentally, you can hear the gates slam shut. Just use different words. Like, "We are currently overcoming some physical challenges." That's better, isn't it? It is, better for everybody involved.
I wasn't about to give up on 150 mph in Arkansas, by golly that's the goal. With a new rear gear and a tailwind Red was able to do it. Never say, "Can't."
Aside from that, listen to what people say, in conversation. NLP is more applicable to people you have just now met, not old friends. Make eye contact and listen. People will involuntarily tell you what's important to them. They will. It's a science, not a religion, and it's real. So many aspects to it. Just observe. It takes some practice.
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