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At what point do we decide to GO with the decision we made a few seconds ago? It happens in milliseconds.
I'm married to Sue Unit, the best calculated decision I've ever made, and maybe smarter than anything I've ever done. Luck or fate or blessings from above. We're the Wees in Weeville. Thinking back, there had to be some "point" where there was a critical decision beng made. If it was a moment or a month, I became convinced (correctly) that was the right thing to do. And thankfully, she agreed. She must have been thinking the same thing.
As things happen and you make decisions in life, how do you know a pivotal moment when you get to one? You don't. They are not all scheduled. But you can always look back and SEE a pivotal public moment (weddings, funerals, etc.) .
But truly pivotal moments are seldom that way - some of the bigger ones are spontaneous - Boy, if I had only SAID (whatever), or if I had only DONE (whatever). Stuff you'd like to have a chance to do over again.
Or on the other hand, what I DID say or DO that steered things in a totally different direction at that very moment, etc.
And then there's the "I forgot somethig in the house so I had to go back and get it, and that delay interrupted the timing such that I didn't get hit by the truck at the intersection....."
Okay, I'm off topic. Never mind.
No, I'm not on drugs, I just think way too much.
I'm married to Sue Unit, the best calculated decision I've ever made, and maybe smarter than anything I've ever done. Luck or fate or blessings from above. We're the Wees in Weeville. Thinking back, there had to be some "point" where there was a critical decision beng made. If it was a moment or a month, I became convinced (correctly) that was the right thing to do. And thankfully, she agreed. She must have been thinking the same thing.
As things happen and you make decisions in life, how do you know a pivotal moment when you get to one? You don't. They are not all scheduled. But you can always look back and SEE a pivotal public moment (weddings, funerals, etc.) .
But truly pivotal moments are seldom that way - some of the bigger ones are spontaneous - Boy, if I had only SAID (whatever), or if I had only DONE (whatever). Stuff you'd like to have a chance to do over again.
Or on the other hand, what I DID say or DO that steered things in a totally different direction at that very moment, etc.
And then there's the "I forgot somethig in the house so I had to go back and get it, and that delay interrupted the timing such that I didn't get hit by the truck at the intersection....."
Okay, I'm off topic. Never mind.
No, I'm not on drugs, I just think way too much.
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