Reason I haven't been on here much

[chevybuytroy]

You all know my wife and I were foster parents and adopted a child. I found out at the end of November she was cheating on me the whole time through the adoption. I have been going to counseling and had been helping. Thought things were starting to work out again and then told me she was moving out last Saturday. Said she is leaving Julian with me. Said she isnt happy and doesnt know how to be. We see a divorce lawyer March the 4th. I moved into my grandmas house until she clears out. Hard for me to look at her. Julian is taking it really hard. He is staying with her in the house till she moves out. I would like to say sorry to Hoosierl98GTA (Dan) for not being able to help you on your transmission you asked me about. She had been cheating on me when I would be in the shop and I havent been able to go back out there yet. Keep me and Julian in your prayers for this rough journey we will start. Thanks to all who have checked up on me. I might have to sell some shop equipment so I'll let you guys know.

[Deaf Bob]

Sorry it is happening. Hope the pain goes away soon...

[Matt Cramer]

That's terrible news. You and Julian hang in there. I'll be praying for you.

[chevybuytroy]

Thanks guys. Trying too hang in there.

[DanStokes]

That sucks big time. ME will pray for you (I'll make a request) and I send all my Best Positive Energy (like usual). While cheating was not involved I've come thru 2 really tough divorces and I promise things WILL get better. You're being presented with a lesson even if you don't know what it is yet (took me lots of shrink time to sort out what my lesson was) and you WILL be better off at the end of this tunnel. If you want more info we can do that in Emails or I'll send my phone number and I'll be happy to tell you what I learned out of this.

And now I get to have a life with ME - it'll be 25 years in April. So at the end of it, it was worth it 100x over. You're a great guy and after the pain subsides you'll find someone who is worthy of you.

Dan

[corvettedad]

Sorry to hear that, you'll be in our prayers! Hang in there.

[chevybuytroy]

On a side note, is anyone on testosterone shots? She has always given them to me the past 8 years but Im gonna have to start on my own. Does it hurt in the thigh?

[DanStokes]

Yes. My doc is now giving them (no charge) because the pharmacies are being hassled by the insurance companies not to dispense vials to civilians. Guess BC/BS thinks I'm going to use the stuff to cheat in the Olympics or NFL or something. The docs office has been really good about picking up on this, especially given that this doc is not even the prescribing physician - the endrocronologist prescribes and my GP office near my house puts the stuff in. Anyhow, you will likely be able to make similar arrangements if you explain the situation.

Dan

[SuperBuickGuy]

thoughts and prayers to you.

[Huskinhano]

Marriage can be tough enough under the best of conditions. No need to apologize for something like this. We understand, take care of yourself first!

[Dan Barlow]

Think nothing of me . No big beal on my end . You on the other hand are going thru a rough time . I wish it would all work out and you all get back together . On the other hand if you cant trust her or she wont come back , move on . And I know that will be tough if thats the way it goes down . I'll be praying for you .

[Barry Donovan]

adoptions, divorce..testosterone shots.

you seem to be dynamical enough to leap right through this.

Some of us are quite the opposite...myself included.
A bright day returns... its all yours in peace.

[Russell]

As requested.

[chevybuytroy]

Gave myself the shot tonight in the thigh. Wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. Thank you everyone for your words. I've been more embarrassed than anything that this is happening. Kinda why I haven't been on. This doesn't happen in our family. I took Julian home a 6.30 tonight. Miss him..

[chevybuytroy]

I got in with my Therapist tomorrow to figure out how to go through this.